I just want to apologize to anyone if I have offended you in anyway by being judgemental, condensending, harsh, or mean. It was brought to my attention by a former friend and also a family member that I am this way. In my heart, I haven't meant to be. I don't want to be that kind of person. I truly thought I was encouraging them and advising them. I never meant it hurtful or mean. I never meant it to sound judgemental or self righteous, and for that I'm am very sorry, and therefore sorry to any of you, if I have ever came across that way. Please forgive me.