Paddling has been brought back to Temple, TX school district.
Paddling article
When I was in jr high and high school, paddling was still in effect. When my oldest went to private school, paddling was in effect there too. As a parent, I had to sign a waiver that basically said that in order for my daughter to go to school there, paddling was used and if she received enough demerits, paddling would take place. Obviously, I didn't have a problem with that. :D
I believe GOD made the bottom for spanking. Spanking, NOT beating!!! I believe the verse "spare the rod, spoil the child" is true, despite what anti-spankers believe.
Proverbs 13:24 (King James Version)
24He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.
Proverbs 23:13-14 (King James Version)
13Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
14Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell.
I'm not saying a spanking is always the answer to discipline. I have one child that a word was usually enough to get her attention, another child that taking away priviledges got his, and one child that a spanking did wonders. It all depends on the child and the disobedience they commited. Now that my children are older, I don't spank anymore.
When my children were little, and they disobeyed, I asked them what they did. They would tell me. Then I would ask them what the Word of GOD says. They would quote, Ephesians 6:1-3 to me.
Ephesians 6:1-3 (King James Version)
Ephesians 6
1Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
2Honour thy father and mother; which is the first commandment with promise;
3That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
I would them spank my child, usually with a wooden spoon, enough to make it hurt, but not severely. After the crying was over, I reminded my children I loved them and I wanted them to grow up in the nuture and admonition of the LORD (Ephesians 6:4), remind them that they need to obey according to the WORD, that I loved them always, and give them a hug and a kiss.
I never wanted to spank my children without them understanding why they were getting a spanking, or without them knowing that I loved them afterwards. I know some people don't agree with spankings, but they can be very effective if done properly.
Blessings until next time.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Paddling brought back
Posted by Bobbi at 6:45 AM
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Well said.
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